Wedding planning is a job designed to be done by two. While lots of grooms are eager to be hands-on, many brides can find it hard to let go and share the load. Then there are the grooms who are less interested in all the details and happy to let their partner take on all the work. But (in a straight couple) brides don't, and shouldn't, have to do it all. Whatever kind of couple you are and roles you take, a wedding is about two people coming together, so it's important that both of you are involved from beginning.